Iceland is one of the most magical and romantic places in the world to say “I do” - from waterfalls and black sand beaches to glaciers and mossy lava fields. Whether you dream of a simple, intimate ceremony or an adventurous elopement deep in nature, this guide will walk you through every step of planning your perfect day here.
1. Choose Your Season & Date
Each season in Iceland offers something unique:
Summer (June–August): Midnight sun, green landscapes, easier travel.
Autumn (September–October): Fewer tourists, golden colors, northern lights start showing.
Winter (November–March): Snowy wonderland, northern lights, moody light.
Spring (April–May): Fresh moss, blooming lupines, and quieter nature.
Tip: Avoid weekends at major tourist spots for more privacy. Early mornings or late evenings offer the most magical light (and solitude).
2. Decide if You’ll Have a Legal or Symbolic Ceremony
You have two options:
Legal ceremony: You’ll be officially married in Iceland.
Symbolic ceremony: You do the legal paperwork at home and have your ceremony in Iceland for the experience.
If you want your wedding to be legally recognized in Iceland, you’ll need to:
Gather documents (birth certificates, marital status certificate, passports, etc.).
Send them to Sýslumaðurinn (District Commissioner) at least 3 weeks before your wedding.
→ You can find info and downloadable forms here: www.syslumenn.isMeet with the local officiant or District Commissioner upon arrival.
Tip: Most couples choose to handle the legal paperwork at home and have a symbolic ceremony here - it’s much simpler, and you still get the same unforgettable experience.
3. Pick Your Location
There are countless incredible spots to choose from:
Waterfalls: Skógafoss, Seljalandsfoss, Kvernufoss, or hidden ones like Gljúfrabúi.
Black Sand Beaches: Reynisfjara or the quieter beaches near Vík.
Glaciers & Ice: Jökulsárlón, Sólheimajökull, or a guided glacier adventure.
Mountains & Lava Fields: Reykjanes Peninsula, Þórsmörk, Landmannalaugar, or Snæfellsnes.
Tip: Always check accessibility and safety - some roads require a 4x4 or special permission. A local photographer or planner can help you choose the right spot and handle logistics.
4. Find Your Photographer & Videographer
Your photos will be your memories forever - so choose someone who captures not just the scenery, but your connection and emotions.
→ Look for someone experienced with Icelandic conditions (like weather, light, and location logistics).
Pro tip: Many photographers (myself included!) can help you find locations, create a timeline, and even recommend vendors and accommodation.
5. Book an Officiant (If Needed)
If you’re doing a legal ceremony, you’ll need an authorized officiant such as:
A civil officiant from the District Commissioner’s office.
A local priest or minister.
An independent celebrant (for personalized ceremonies).
Symbolic ceremonies can be performed by anyone you choose - even a friend or your photographer if you want to keep it intimate.
6. Organize Your Vendors
Depending on your vision, you might want:
Hair & makeup artist (book early, they often travel from Reykjavík).
Florist (some create stunning dried or preserved bouquets that travel well).
Elopement planner or guide if you want someone to handle the details.
Dress/attire advice: Choose flowy fabrics that move beautifully in wind, and layers for warmth.
Tip: You can find reliable local vendors through Instagram, or via recommendations from your photographer or planner.
7. Prepare for Icelandic Weather
The weather here changes quickly - and that’s part of the magic. Expect:
Wind, rain, sun, and fog… sometimes all in one day!
Dress warmly and wear good shoes.
Bring a cozy jacket or wool sweater to slip on between shots.
Tip: The Icelandic saying “þetta reddast” (“it’ll all work out”) couldn’t be truer here - embrace the unexpected, and it often turns into the most beautiful memories.
8. Plan Your Travel & Accommodation
Car rental: You’ll need a car (preferably 4x4) to reach most elopement locations.
Accommodation: Cozy cabins, boutique hotels, or countryside guesthouses - try to stay near your ceremony spot to save travel time.
Apps: Download Veður (weather), SafeTravel.is, and 112 Iceland (emergency app).
Tip: Many couples plan a few extra days for sightseeing, exploring hot springs, and just relaxing together after the ceremony.
9. The Big Day
Enjoy a slow morning - Icelandic light can last for hours.
Bring snacks, hand warmers, and a thermos of hot chocolate or coffee.
Trust your team - weather, light, and mood will guide you to the perfect shots.
Let go of perfection. Iceland will add her own touch of wild beauty to your story.
10. After the Ceremony
If you had a legal wedding, make sure to get your marriage certificate from the District Commissioner before leaving Iceland.
Celebrate with a dinner, champagne under the midnight sun, or a dip in a natural hot spring.
Relax - you just married the love of your life in one of the most breathtaking places on earth!
How to Elope in Iceland – Step-by-Step Guide
Useful Tips & Tricks
Here are a few things I’ve learned over the years that can make your photoshoot or elopement experience in Iceland even more enjoyable, comfortable, and unforgettable.
1. Embrace the Weather
Iceland’s weather can’t be controlled - and that’s part of its charm. Some of the most magical photos happen in unexpected moments: misty rain, soft fog, or golden light breaking through stormy clouds.
Don’t stress if it rains - it often adds a cinematic, emotional touch that’s impossible to plan for.
2. Dress for Comfort & Warmth
Even in summer, it can get chilly and windy. Layer up!
Bring a warm jacket, thermal leggings, hand warmers, and comfortable shoes that you can walk on uneven ground in. Flowing dresses look beautiful in Icelandic wind - and wool sweaters, scarves, and coats can look incredibly cozy and romantic.
It’s all about feeling good - warmth equals genuine smiles.
3. Don’t Rush the Day
The best photos come when you truly live in the moment. Icelandic light - especially during the midnight sun or golden hour - lasts for a long time, so there’s no need to hurry.
Take time to breathe, soak in the scenery, hold each other, and let the moments unfold naturally.
4. Bring Snacks & Hot Drinks
There’s often a drive or a short hike involved in reaching the most beautiful spots. Bring snacks, water, and maybe a thermos with hot chocolate, coffee, or tea. It keeps you warm and adds to the cozy adventure feel.
5. Keep Your Expectations Loose
Iceland has its own rhythm. Sometimes a waterfall is too windy, or fog rolls in unexpectedly - but there’s always something beautiful nearby. Having an open mind and trusting the process will give you the best experience.
Our local motto “þetta reddast” - everything will work out - is worth keeping in heart.
6. Think About Colors & Textures
For photos, natural colors work best: beige, brown, green, white, rust, and soft earthy tones that complement the landscape.
Avoid bright neon or large logos - they can be distracting against the subtle Icelandic scenery. Knitted sweaters, linen, wool coats, and flowing fabrics photograph beautifully.
If in doubt - imagine the colors of moss, sand, and sky. You can’t go wrong.
7. Waterproof Everything
From your shoes to your makeup, Iceland might throw some mist your way. Bring a small towel, waterproof mascara, and extra socks - little details that make a big difference when you’re out in nature for a few hours.
8. Enjoy the Journey
Your elopement or photoshoot isn’t just about the photos - it’s an experience. The drive through lava fields, the sound of the ocean, the feeling of wind in your hair - these are all part of your story.
The best photos aren’t posed; they’re felt.
9. Take Care of Yourself
Eat well, sleep enough the night before, and give yourself time to relax. Bring lip balm, hairbrush, and a small towel if we’re shooting near waterfalls. Small comforts make a big difference when you’re out exploring.
10. And Most of All - Have Fun
Laugh, dance, kiss in the rain, run barefoot if you want to. Be present with your partner or your family - Iceland will do the rest.
This day is yours - make it unforgettable.